The Care and Keeping of You (The American Girl book). These people know their market!  This book is known and loved by a gazillion people.

There’s also a “Part Two” version for older girls.

This one was recommended to me as a more inclusive puberty book for girls:

And for boys, I like this one but FYI it does refer to boys developing an interest “in girls” (ie, it is heteronormative.)

And if you want a book that offers some information about puberty plus reproduction and other sex-related topics, this is always my favorite for kids 7 (ish) and above:

And for kids in 6th grade (ish) and above:

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